Ineffable Ontological Detanglement .: Introspective Assistance & Mental Analysis Manual
I saw a very dramatic malfunction of workplace persona at my old night job.
A man myself and Matt "Sly" Sylvestre used to work with was engaged to a woman he worked with. One day, shortly before they were meant to be married, he wakes up to find her gone. He finds a note on his fridge explaining that she is leaving him for his best friend. That night, he needs to go into work with her and maintain workplace persona. Everybody knows, however everybody knows this never happened. No introducing any sort of dramatic darkness, no sir, unprofessional, unCanadian. I did it too, I worked with her, I knew what happened, I had received mellowed and considerate peace keeping stories of her perspective however I always know how to filter these things, I know what happened. She would always alter her work pants to show off her excellent butt, but never never never project to anybody that there is a sluttiness within her, besides of course the not-so-subtle looks of recognition I would get out of her when she catches me admiring her appearance or I catch her admiring mine, they had a hint of slyness to them. Anybody at all is a potentiality, anybody at all, she'd consider it.
You're fine, lady, you semi-consciously wish for a world a free love and you want to be a little evil about it. It's hot. You fucked it all up, you're still lost in your society thinking, you think you can get around your own society thinking. What you did to my old work friend was not fine, it seems all you really wanted was cool rock groupie lifestyle this guy almost made it, now you get to live a life of I did a cool rock guy he almost made it I'm a cool chick within the realm of the normals. I did it. I made it. I did just for me and my super cool generic normal person society image amongst the generic society normals, it only took one little sacrifice, a man worth far more to society than me, a man who saw and lived what it is to be outside of society normals. Exotic.
Now, workplace persona says we need to maintain civility at work, don't talk about what happened. However false friendly Canadian malfunction interfered and caused everybody to be friendly and charming with her as if we're not at work together and this never happened we're at a party together and this never happened. Now we take it to the actual work friend parties and this never happened. False meaningless friendly society barriers are more important than our friend having to watch all of us do this for two and a half decades. I mean, what do you want, an HR incident? Somebody needs to find a new job? Come on man, priorities.
There you go buddy that should fix it.